Before the call
Before your next meeting, do nothing for 2 minutes
Don’t check one more message. Don’t open one more tab. Take two minutes to arrive before you respond.
Best used before calls, 1:1s, reviews, and difficult conversations.
Arrive before you enter
Meetings often start before we are actually there.
We join while finishing a message. We listen while thinking about the previous call. We respond while still carrying the noise of the last task.
This is a tiny pause before you enter the room.
For two minutes, don’t prepare. Don’t rehearse. Don’t check Slack. Don’t scan your inbox. Just stop touching things.
Then join your meeting with a little more space between the stimulus and your response.
After the pause
You arrived.
Now enter the meeting a little slower, a little clearer, and a little less automatic.